Events and feelings immediately surrounding the deaths of children in the hospital were investigated in order to identify factors that might influence a house officer's ability to relate in a personally satisfying way to dying children and their parents. Open-ended interviews with the involved interns and their supervising residents were conducted within 36 hours of the deaths of 31 hospitalized children to gain insight into the reactions and responses of new physicians managing terminally ill patients. Interns' relationships with children who were fatally ill appeared to be influenced by two factors: the child's age and the child's neurologic status. The interns' relationships with parents reflected their attitudes toward the children but were also affected by the duration of the illness, especially in instances when the patients were comatose or severely impaired. Senior medical staff awareness of the age and responsiveness of dying patients and the duration of their illness can help to provide case-specific guidance and support to the interns. Such support may help prevent that excessive distancing or over involvement that can impair the interns' abilities to provide optimal emotional support to patients, the families, or themselves.