Since the beginning of my nursing career in South Africa, for me, it has always been about relationships. I was three years older than my classmates in nursing school and was married before I graduated, so my social life was separate, but I made friends and enjoyed listening to their dating successes and woes. One of my instructors lived down the road from me, and we spent many an evening talking about nursing. She had worked in Canada's North, and I remember her telling me that it was so cold that her contact lenses froze. Little did I anticipate that, one day, I too would move to Canada (the cold certainly has been a persistent issue for me). In many ways, she was a mentor-although I didn't realize it at the time-and she was certainly an inspiration.
Keywords: collaboration; communication; education; mentorship; nurse education; relationships; writing for publication.