| Disclosure | Self-awareness | Disclosure can be very liberating, but it takes time to understand the implications and to feel ready to do this. This took 6 years for her.
You can be better informed about what's happening in terms of your own disease, health status and new developments.
You can't be blackmailed.
Important for those who love you and help your life to function hear this news from you directly.
“If you don't disclose to yourself. You can be transmitting [the virus] without knowing it.”
Disclosure is important, but more important is the ability to negotiate (endlessly) for protected sex [when your partner doesn't like condoms], for your own well-being and peace of mind [regarding risks to HIV-negative partner] and for the health and well-being of future children, and for the stability of the relationship itself. Couples will need support for this as well as for disclosure.
“Many people were not ‘living’ with HIV, they were ‘existing’ with HIV.”
Everyone deserves the opportunity to learn to live with being HIV-positive without being judged. | Couple needs to be ready to disclose before embarking on testing and counselling together – counsellors will need to be trained not only to guide clients through the process but also to be able to determine when a couple might not be ready to disclose to each other.
Counsellors need to have complete, technically accurate and easily understandable information in order to answer any questions or provide appropriate referrals. |
| Supportive environment | Contributes to peace of mind; relieves anxiety about whether or not you will be loved and accepted; establishes a network of supportive friends, family and health care providers.
Never expect 100% acceptance; as you gain confidence, the non-acceptance will diminish.
One woman who tested and counselled with her husband noted that mutual disclosure made her feel that she had to stay and support her husband after realizing that they shared the same fate; now they plan for their children's future together.
Gives others the courage to disclose, contributing to normalization and acceptance.
“When the HIV-positive person feels secure and can talk about him/herself in a very open way, not looking for pity, it usually triggers the best side of others…must be done in a small, controlled environment.” | Participating in the process together can help a couple to place the emphasis on their shared responsibilities to each other and to their children.
Mutual disclosure may relieve the pressure on the couple to disclose before they are ready. If the financial and emotional support is intact between the couple, there are many important decisions that can be taken without disclosure to the wider community, if this is what the couple prefers. |
| Stigma and discrimination | “People will accept you to the extent that you accept yourself.”
Access to ARVs hasn't changed stigma – we need to reinvigorate the work against stigma though policymaking and the type of language we use.
In some countries, especially where a concentrated epidemic creates sharp divisions between high and low risk groups, there is still massive discrimination and there is a risk that people in these countries will not go for testing because they simply do not want to know.
“In some ways, availability and access to treatment has intensified stigma – when people felt they had nothing to lose, they stood up and fought. Now it's easier to hide one's status, and so we've lost some ground.”
There are SOPs for HTC that address stigma and discrimination on paper, but they are not always translated into practice.
People will stigmatize those who are less empowered, which represents an additional burden to the person with HIV. | Providers need to be sure that couple can disclose in a safe environment; referrals for protective and legal services may be required.
Providers need to be accountable for professional standards and behaviour which minimize stigma and discrimination in health service delivery settings.
Strategies for empowerment and confidence-building must be part of CHTC interventions – individuals must learn ‘ownership’ of their HIV. |
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| Impact on health, childbearing and prevention | Disclosure should be linked to practicing standard precautions in the household, especially where young children are present.
Easier to seek treatment and to adhere to treatment when you are not fearful of others finding out; partners especially can play a powerful role in adherence, reminding about taking meds as well as offering comfort and moral support for coping with difficult side effects.
Conception options need to be discussed openly with providers and clinical monitoring available to ensure minimal risk.
In African context, can't use condoms (or very difficult to use condoms) if you haven't disclosed.
Negotiation of protected sex easier when one's HIV status is known by one's partner.
People, especially women, are less willing to take risks or to gamble with their health when they have a child dependant on them; this suggests that disclosure becomes more important as it facilitates parents getting appropriate services to support their health and survival.
You will disclose once but have sex many time…negotiating protected sex, contraception and clinically supervised conception is a bigger challenge for women.
Disclosure implies ‘acceptance’, and that will definitely impact health – if a person is in denial, adherence to treatment will be adversely affected.
In some cultures, the stigma of not having children (or thinking this is not possible) is worse than the stigma of the virus itself.
Disclosure is important, but more important is the ability to negotiate (sometimes endlessly) for protected sex, for your own well-being and the well-being of future children – this is not as easy as some people might think and couples will need support for this along with disclosure; and couples need to hear about this from couples living with HIV themselves. | Counselling needs to be sensitive and comprehensive, and it must include appropriate referrals to high quality services.
Peer counselling, support and mentoring are essential. |
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| Treatment for prevention | Condoms | Couples need to have a comprehensive understanding of the options to continue or cease condom usage – ultimately a personal choice as long as all conditions and risks are understood.
Swiss Statement offers a new freedom to serodiscordant couples who want to consider having unprotected sex. Must be understood that the risk is never zero, but informed choice is paramount.
While the risks may be minimal, some people less willing to take even minimal risks of becoming infected – ceasing condom use must be a joint decision and both partners must be in full agreement.
Men are more eager to not use condoms than women are for men not to use them.
In some counties, e.g. Bolivia, condoms are highly unpopular/unacceptable and women who live openly with HIV face a daily struggle to insist on protected sex.
Condoms are important for many reasons – protection from STI and contraception, so consistent use of condoms recommended by all respondents.
If a couple does not intend to conceive, there is no reason to not use condoms.
Counsellors must recognize the dread and guilt that is felt by HIV-positive people regarding the possibility of transmission of the virus to a partner.
There is a need to address emotional and social aspects of a decision not to use condoms, not just the bio-medical aspects. | Skilled counselling required including verification that couples fully understand information and risks of not using condoms when HIV-positive partner is on medication, VL is undetectable and neither partner has an STI.
In the guidance, WHO should state clearly that there is a residual risk and doctors and counsellors need to have accurate knowledge to be able to advise responsibly on this.
Counsellors must understand and acknowledge the fear felt by the positive partner of transmission to the negative partner. They must understand how difficult the choice is, and the possible need for a couple to require repeat counselling for additional support.
People are not faithful, and so the conclusions of the Swiss Statement need to be worded in a different way in the counselling guidance so that there can be no misunderstanding or potential for misuse, e.g. the risk becomes lower in certain specific cases…
More work on condom promotion still needed in some regions. |
| Conception | Ceasing condom usage for conception is one acceptable option for serodiscordant couples – clinical supervision is recommended and collection and injection (baster method) is also ok when the woman is HIV-positive. Another practice mentioned is putting a pinhole in a condom to minimize the exposure to vaginal fluids of HIV-positive woman.
Conception counselling is not well-developed in many countries, and so options are not well-understood.
Need to be aware of how much you're willing to tell people about trying to start a family because people can be very curious and not understand well; part of the process of telling people needs to be backed up with facts to alleviate fears and criticisms.
Not knowing how to conceive is another ‘self-stigma’ that can be avoided when you are open and can freely discuss with providers and counsellors. | All feasible options in a given community must be understood and explained by counsellor so that couples can make informed choices.
The types of counselling required for ongoing support to discordant couples may require more specific training. |
| Early treatment | While it seems like a good thing, may increase pressure on health systems at the same time that it strengthens individual health status and prevention of transmission to HIV-negative partners.
A personal decision – the decision to start treatment early is not taken lightly by most people living with HIV. There are issues of toxicity, resistance and the very considerable burden of taking medication on a regular and permanent basis.
There are concerns about cost (to the individual or to the health system), toxicity and individual tolerance.
An individual must have full information and be able to take ‘ownership’ decision to initiate early treatment. | This can only be a recommendation when the costs of additional treatment can be covered and not undermine other services.
Information on early treatment should be offered but in a non-pressuring way that allows couples to make a free and informed choice. |
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| HTC for couples | General | It is good for people to start the process together – it opens a ‘window of equality’ for discovering together.
The concept is great – need to have a social marketing campaign that spells out the mutual personal responsibilities of this model.
Prepares couple for any eventuality – we may see more families getting post-test support if they start out together with testing and counselling.
In Uganda, people are often encouraged not to disclose results but to bring partner in for counselling and support to help facilitate the disclosure.
Should not be mandatory but should be offered.
Would not support this in situations where one partner does not agree of feel comfortable – must be a joint decision. If both people don't agree, may raise a red flag about the relationship, and the counsellor must be sensitive to this.
Test result should not be delivered while partners are together in the room – the positive partner needs to be brought through the process and be able to ‘sell’ it to the negative partner.
Testing should be done individually; counselling can be the opportunity to give all the information necessary for the relationship to survive.
There is too little support for health care staff; attrition due to illness, death and burnout is high. In the case of HIV-positive health care staff, only 10% are considered likely to have contracted the virus in the workplace; access to SRH services and counselling must be strengthened included as part of an intervention that will require an increase in the numbers of trained health care staff. Furthermore, HIV-positive female health staff are terrified of being seen as being sympathetic with HIV-positive women clients; they do not offer the support they could if they themselves were more supported in the workplace.
There must be an enabling environment for policy development to support PLHA in all countries – e.g. criminalization of transmission to children, forced terminations and forced sterilizations must be eliminated.
The more that can be done in terms of preparation and awareness raising the better, before proposing the idea of testing jointly.
Peer support will be a key component of this process.
It must be possible to identify the more vulnerable person in the relationship in order to provide additional support as needed.
“It could be a can of worms, or it could be amazing.” | Might consider offering on ‘opt-in’ basis as a pilot initiative to determine optimal design, evidence of feasibility and to define possible risks more accurately.
Need to look at the robustness of support for HIV-positive health staff – their potential as supportive role models is considerable; guidelines needed for this.
Counsellors will need new skills for assessing a couple's readiness for the process and for prompt and effective referrals as needed, especially in cases where protective services are required. |
| Women | Women have powerful protective instincts for their children, and that will determine their willingness to risk a safe environment for them, e.g. home and financial support of their partner.
HTC for couples might be a more humane option for perinatal testing; the woman will not be alone with the burden of her status and the decisions she then needs to make around PMTCT, infant feeding choices etc. | May be useful to consider ANC as the setting for initial phases; expansion once evidence basis more established.
Secondary benefit will be a pool of peer mentors who can support expansion to the broader community. |
| Men | One of the problems is that there has been an overload of information for women and children, and almost none for men – there has to be some phase of preparation for men to be able to go into CHTC with a similar level of knowledge. One of the ways to do this is to get men more involved in services currently focused in most countries on women – ANC, PMTCT and SRH services.
In general, men have been isolated and have not had the same opportunities to learn how to understand sensitive issues around gender equity, power relationships and negotiation in sexual relationships.
In some countries, men feel that HIV messages should only be targeting MSM; public information still a huge gap in some places.
In a place like South Africa, men will continue to think that HIV is a woman's disease, and it will not change until they receive more education and hear about it straight from the medical professional. By hearing [the correct information] from the counsellor, he cannot blame his partner. | Men must have the capacity to engage in this type of intervention; assumptions about men's readiness to participate may have a negative impact on outcomes. |
| Communities | It may be more feasible to sensitize entire communities to the concept of HTC for couples rather than offering it to couples with no ‘advance warning’.
Men and women may access support in different places; need to first understand how health care is structured and delivered and then launch a community consultation and orientation in order to set the stage for provision of this as a new option.
Need to have avenues where men and women access health care in the same place if not together; in countries where this doesn't exist, not clear how this would work; needs to fit into the existing health system and infrastructure. | Needs assessments will be required in different types of communities to define how the health system is set up and how it serves men and women differently. |
| Benefits | Same information given by the same provider, while couple gains the same understanding of treatment options, protocols, follow-up support services.
Like HIV, HTC couple could open up issues of gender and health inequities for deeper examination – not likely to solve issues but would be a step in the right direction.
Issues raised in this context would go to the very core of a couple's way of life, and what brought them together – could have beneficial or detrimental effects.
Both people get the same information from the same provider at the same time – would help to avoid the ‘telephone game’ effect.
May be the best way to go to promote openness and mutual disclosure – we may see more families getting post-test support when they start out together getting testing and counselling.
Linking to other types of support including family services and anti-domestic violence services if necessary.
When you have a child, issues that were not issues become issues; counselling can help with this.
A starting point for forging the dynamic of sharing risks and decisions.
Can also be useful for highlighting the irrational fears that can grow about transmission, risks to family, etc.
Relieves the HIV-positive partner of the burden of disclosing to their partner.
Learning your status together with your partner and starting your ‘new life’ together, can strengthen the relationship. | Skilled counselling required.
In countries where childbearing is essential to the couple's sense of worth and identity in the community (many places), will be critical to make conception counselling one of the features of this approach.
Couples start out on a more equal footing and may decrease the risks of blame and violence – but couples should be carefully followed-up and monitored. |
| Cautions | Funding issues – in some countries, access to medications is dependant on continuity and levels of GF coverage.
Some religious contexts will not allow this sort of interaction between men, women and health providers.
Potential for domestic violence, abandonment and psychological abuse is a serious issue.
Potential to defuse violent situations if counselling handled sensitively, skilfully and with a comprehensive understanding of the community where service is being offered.
May be a higher risk of GBV in conflict zones or other unstable settings.
There may be potential for a partner or provider to pressure or coerce someone into accepting HTC for couples – both partners must agree to participate and there should be no pressure from providers. Must be one option for couples, in addition to individual services in ANC settings or freestanding testing sites.
Needs to be linked to existing services such as VCT in a comprehensive way so that people can be offered an array of options.
One of the biggest problems is that there is a lot of support for women and kids, but men are still quite isolated – … the two partners have often not received the same information, and this can lead to problems. [There is sometime a] complete imbalance of information: overload for 1 group and almost nothing for the other group.
HIV-positive partner can feel stigmatized; counselling together may help the couple to address these perceptions or realities.
Testing during pregnancy must be done in a very supportive environment to avoid extreme stress and negative impacts on the health of the woman and the foetus.
The way that health staff treat clients can have an enormous influence on health-seeking behaviour of the public.
In places where women are considered property, a lot of care must be taken.
The danger is mostly in situations where the status changes after a first test together where both partners were negative – it then becomes an issue of fidelity and morality and not primarily [about the] HIV.
In Zimbabwe [and some other countries], the public is generally very informed about HIV and so they often understand issues like the window period etc…but a trained counsellor can tell if there may be more complex issues of blame and possible abuse or abandonment, in which case they can also request separate sessions with each person in order to allow partners to speak totally freely.
It is very difficult to know how healthy or unhealthy a couple's relationship is; if there is a chance that there will be abuse, providers must be very cautious. Some relationships are problematic already, and an HIV diagnosis – especially for the woman – can be an additional ‘excuse’ for trouble. | To be able to promote treatment for prevention for serodiscordant couples, must be able to guarantee lifetime supply of medications.
Consultations with religious leaders in some communities may be necessary; may not be feasible in some settings.
Counsellors must be highly trained to assess stability and potential for violence in a relationship.
Legal and social protective services must be available in cases where follow-up required.
May need to consider tapping into other sources for counsellors, eg INERELA+ members with counselling skills, peer educators (couples)
Orientation for men may need to be considered in some communities before HTC for couples is initiated. |
| Counselling | Consider carefully the structure of the counselling piece – start off with a group or couple session for general information, separate sessions to deal with difficult or sensitive topics, and then back together as a couple for testing and / or more counselling.
Counselling as currently structured and staffed (in Africa) is not adequate to deal with this new approach – will need to identify ways to resolve this, perhaps develop other ways to develop cadre of counsellors.
Need to place emphasis on training and capacity-building for a much larger cadre of counsellors with a much more complex set of responsibilities.
Counselling should be related to something important to the couple, eg conception, to enhance the immediate relevance for those who may be reluctant about counselling.
May need some specific, separate counselling for the negative partner to address the realities of living with an HIV-positive partner.
Very good training for providers must be available before services rolled out – need to be sure to eliminate the name/shame/blame game.
The post-test counselling has to deal with trust, blame, reinforcement of technical information about how a couple can be discordant and live safely… all of this needs to be done in a more holistic way.
We want to be able to put another 4 million people into counselling and we simply don't have the facilities for that – how are we going to do it? | Flexible approaches to counselling will be required, perhaps based on assessment of couple's stability and readiness for the process.
May be useful to find creative ways to structure the counselling – ½ day together, separate sessions to discuss sensitive issues or to accommodate one partner's needs for privacy etc.
Significant resources will be required. |