Parents in couple therapy: An intervention targeting marital and coparenting relationships

Fam Process. 2022 Jun;61(2):490-506. doi: 10.1111/famp.12773. Epub 2022 Apr 8.

Abstract

This article describes the treatment framework and core therapeutic principles of the integrative brief systemic intervention (IBSI), a manualized six-session intervention intended for parents seeking couple therapy. IBSI aims to work on the couple's presenting problem, considering its specific impact in the marital and coparenting domains. The basic premise of IBSI is to consider that, when working with couples who have children, therapeutic work on their coparenting alliance may be used as a lever, as both parents may be particularly motivated to improve their relationship for their children's benefit. Increasing the coparenting alliance may then facilitate work on deeper conflicts within the marital relationship. The core therapeutic principles of IBSI are: (1) joining with the couple as romantic partners and a coparenting team from the start of the therapeutic process; (2) supporting the parents in increasing their awareness regarding their children's behavior and emotional experiences when facing their parents' conflicts; and (3) working on the spill- and cross-over effects between marital and coparenting relationships (i.e., exploring how conflict or positivity spills over from one relationship to the other or crosses over from one partner to the other). Therapeutic work following these main therapeutic principles is expected to improve the quality of both relationships. A clinical case is provided to illustrate the core therapeutic principles of IBSI.

本文描述了综合系统干预(IBSI)的治疗框架和核心治疗原则, 这种治疗是一种可遵照指导手册执行的, 旨在为寻求伴侣治疗的家长们开展为期六次的干预服务。IBSI的目的是针对伴侣双方出现的问题, 考虑其在婚姻和育儿方面产生的具体影响。IBSI的基本前提是考虑到, 当与有孩子的夫妇合作时, 对他们共同养育联盟的治疗工作可能被用作一种杠杆, 因为父母双方可能特别有动机为了孩子的利益改善他们的关系。增加共同养育联盟可能会促进解决婚姻关系中更深层次的冲突。IBSI的核心治疗原则是:(1)从治疗过程的一开始, 就以恋爱伙伴和共同养育团队的身份加入到伴侣中; (2)支持父母提高对子女在面对父母冲突时行为和情感体验的认识; (3)研究婚姻和抚养关系之间的溢出和交叉效应(即探索冲突或积极是如何从一段关系溢出到另一种关系, 或从一方传到另一方的)。如果遵循这些主要治疗原则, 治疗工作就有望改善这两种关系的质量。本文运用了一个临床案例来说明IBSI的核心治疗原则。.

Keywords: brief intervention; coparenting; couple therapy; marital relationship; parents; 亲子关系; 伴侣治疗; 婚姻关系; 父母; 短暂干预.

Publication types

  • Research Support, Non-U.S. Gov't

MeSH terms

  • Child
  • Couples Therapy*
  • Emotions
  • Humans
  • Marriage
  • Parenting* / psychology
  • Parents / psychology